Dating. Some people here are doing it, some people here have done it, some people here claim to have done it, and some people are trying but failing.
(Now, I ask questions in threads to give people something to talk about if they can't think of anything to say, if you have more to say, say it, if you don't feel like answering [some of] them, don't)
Have you ever dated someone?
Are you dating someone now?
How long was your longest relationship?
Have you kissed?
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other?
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married?
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please do not bring this subject up...
Quote from: Nayrman on February 05, 2010, 07:40:37 PM
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please do not bring this subject up...
I don't know what your problem is, but I really think you need to get over it, you and Allegretto or whatever his name is. [/rant]
Have you ever dated someone?
If "dating" in Kindergarten counts, yesAre you dating someone now?
Nope.How long was your longest relationship?
A little less than 180 days I guess...Have you kissed?
Arguable, I would say no, but my friend claims it was. (we were messing around during a movie and well, our lips met....it was a little awkward as awkward as thing can get at that age....---
(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other?
I would say whenever you're both ready...Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married?
This is again up to the couple...I'm personally unsure about this one....
Three different girls.
Yes.
Current one, just hit 13 months as of Feb 24.
2/3 of them.
As long or as quickly as you want.
I don't see a problem unless you're doing it at a young age or are lying about your amount of partners to your current partner.
Have you ever dated someone? 3 girls
Are you dating someone now? Errm...
How long was your longest relationship? 1 year 2 months
Have you kissed? Obvuiously
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How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Till you both want to.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Yes; if you want to.
Have you ever dated someone? Yeah.
Are you dating someone now? Unfortunately.
How long was your longest relationship? This one now is my longest relationship. About 14 months?
Have you kissed? Haha, yeah.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? When you are in the relationship or before the relationship? I hope you've already kissed them by the time you are actually in the relationship. I mean, it's just kissing. So I wouldn't wait long.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Sex is okay to do as long as you aren't careless. You can wait until you're married if you want. Whenever you're ready.
Quote from: JrDude ½ on February 05, 2010, 07:23:26 PM
Have you ever dated someone?
Well, no.
Are you dating someone now?
See above.
How long was your longest relationship?
Non existent.
Have you kissed?
I plead silence.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other?
...I don't know. *Shrugs*
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married?
Personally, I'm waiting until I'm married.
For the most part, I'm actually avoiding relationships half the time.
I'm asexual so I haven't and never will date
I've dated. Haven't had a proper relationship. Most dates I've gone on with anyone is 4.
No I'm not dating anyone now, and likely won't for a while.
And yes there was kissing. Oh man was there ever kissing.
Quote from: Gwen Khan on February 05, 2010, 10:34:59 PM
I'm asexual so I haven't and never will date
That's not what asexual is.
Asexual simply means you have no desire for sex or sexuality. It does nothing about the desire to date with anyone, the want for a relationship or human companionship , nor does it prevent you from having sex.
You're just someone who is asexual and uninterested (atm) in a relationship.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on February 06, 2010, 02:08:31 AM
That's not what asexual is.
Asexual simply means you have no desire for sex or sexuality. It does nothing about the desire to date with anyone, the want for a relationship or human companionship , nor does it prevent you from having sex.
You're just someone who is asexual and uninterested (atm) in a relationship.
I learned asexual means that you don't need a sex partner, because you can reproduce alone (Like, I think a starfish removes one tentacle thingy, then it grows another, the separated tentacle then becomes a new starfish [that might be wrong, but I think it's something like that])
When discussing sexualities, which is what was implied, asexual is what I stated.
When discussing reproduction, your statement is accurate.
Context is key kids!
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on February 06, 2010, 02:08:31 AM
That's not what asexual is.
Asexual simply means you have no desire for sex or sexuality. It does nothing about the desire to date with anyone, the want for a relationship or human companionship , nor does it prevent you from having sex.
You're just someone who is asexual and uninterested (atm) in a relationship.
I should have had a written that better it should have been
I'm asexual, and currently have no desire to date or ever date
Quote from: JrDude ½ on February 05, 2010, 07:23:26 PM
Have you ever dated someone? lolno
Are you dating someone now? lolno
How long was your longest relationship? N/A
Have you kissed? lolno
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Pfft, I don't care.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Sex is fine whenever.
At this point, I don't really care about relationships.
Have you ever dated someone? - Yep.
Are you dating someone now? - Not technically.
How long was your longest relationship? - 3 months or so.
Have you kissed? - Nope.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? - I would wait 2 weeks to a month, if we're talking about passionate, lip-locked, tongue-twirling making out.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? - Sex is a beautiful connection between two loving people (usually). People can have it whenever they want, I'm perfectly fine with it, and I'd never wait until marriage.
Quote from: John Locke on February 06, 2010, 11:11:49 AM
if we're talking about passionate, lip-locked, tongue-twirling making out.
yes, I am talking about basically that.
Have you ever dated someone? Yes.
Are you dating someone now? NOPE.
How long was your longest relationship? 3 weeks.
Have you kissed? NOPE.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? idklol
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? It's okay. MARRIAGE DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING ANYMORE
Have you ever dated someone? No.
Are you dating someone now? No.
How long was your longest relationship? Yes.
Have you kissed? Maybe.
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How long should you wait until you kiss each other? At least a week.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Wait 'till marriage. Or use a condom.
Have you ever dated someone? No.
Are you dating someone now? No.
How long was your longest relationship? N--I mean--0 milliseconds.
Have you kissed? No.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Until you both know that you want to go steady and when the moment is right (as in romantic and all that).
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? My religion says to wait until after marriage, so therefore, I say the same.
Have you ever dated someone? Technically, no.
Are you dating someone now? Nope.
How long was your longest relationship? Three months.
Have you kissed? ;_;
---(Whether you've dated someone or not) How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Uh...third date?
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Personally, wait, but hey, it's a free country.
Also, my best friend kissed a girl like two weeks ago. And not a butt ugly chick......he's 12.
;_;
I've dated one girl
Dated her for two years
Not dating her no more, she broke up with me 3 weeks ago and have no intention in dating for awhile.
Never had sex, don't want to till I'm married
I don't like kissing much till it actually means something.
Have you ever dated someone? Yes
Are you dating someone now? Yes
How long was your longest relationship? Like a month I think.
Have you kissed? Yes
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Whenever the people are ready, and it actually means something to both people.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Same as above.
Quote from: JrDude ½ on February 05, 2010, 07:23:26 PM
Have you ever dated someone?
Are you dating someone now?
How long was your longest relationship?
Have you kissed?
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other?
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married?
Yes.
Yes.
Three months.
Yes.
I think kissing is one of the most sensual experiances you can go through. A kiss on the first date isn't totally insane. I know that most of the times the girls I take out expect a kiss goodnight, or something of that nature.
Sex is okay, but only if you really do care about the person. Using someone for sex is a disgusting thing to do. If you think you're ready for sex, don't rush into it. Ask your partner if they want to, if they think it'll change anything. The most important part is that you're both happy, not that you got laid.
Quote from: Hitler on February 14, 2010, 10:45:24 AM
Sex is okay, but only if you really do care about the person. Using someone for sex is a disgusting thing to do. If you think you're ready for sex, don't rush into it. Ask your partner if they want to, if they think it'll change anything. The most important part is that you're both happy, not that you got laid.
Best advice ever I think personally. People need to realize that more often about how women feel and not just about them selves. Likewise for ladies too.
Quote from: Hitler on February 14, 2010, 10:45:24 AM
I think kissing is one of the most sensual experiances you can go through. A kiss on the first date isn't totally insane. I know that most of the times the girls I take out expect a kiss goodnight, or something of that nature.
Sex is okay, but only if you really do care about the person. Using someone for sex is a disgusting thing to do. If you think you're ready for sex, don't rush into it. Ask your partner if they want to, if they think it'll change anything. The most important part is that you're both happy, not that you got laid.
Quote from: The_MasterSword1 on February 14, 2010, 01:01:01 PM
Best advice ever I think personally. People need to realize that more often about how women feel and not just about them selves. Likewise for ladies too.
I totally agree. This should go for everyone. My religion prevents me from having recreational, premarital, and sex of any kind that is not between two happy and loving people that are trying to procreate. :| That just basically means that this advice has already been told to me, but
should be taught to everyone.
You folks put sex on waaaaay to high a pedestal. It's not something you should be doing with anyone and everyone, but it doesn't have to be this sacred thing you wait forever for either.
Quote from: Codename V on February 14, 2010, 11:27:45 PM
You folks put sex on waaaaay to high a pedestal. It's not something you should be doing with anyone and everyone, but it doesn't have to be this sacred thing you wait forever for either.
Putting my religion aside, I can see your point. It's just that I don't think that people are necessarily waiting for sex, it's just that everything that must be taken care of before sex (i.e. discussing relationship issues, discussing health issues, laying "ground rules," creating the right moment, etc.) takes enough time to be considered waiting for it. Pre-sex issues aside, I'm just a bit curious to know whether or not you think that sex is "sacred" (or any other form of equivalent importance) in any way. I understand if this is a personal question and you feel uncomfortable answering it.
It's not sacred. If you feel it's appropriate and are comfortable with the person, I see no reason why not to so long as you're safe about it. Again, people make way too big a deal out of the whole ordeal.
Have you ever dated someone? Yep.
Are you dating someone now? Ha. I wish.
How long was your longest relationship? 3 months.
Have you kissed? Yep.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Dunno honestly. It just depends on how much you like the person I guess.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? I've had sex 4 times. You tell me.
Have you ever dated someone? Yup
Are you dating someone now? Married now
How long was your longest relationship? six years adjusted for breaks
Have you kissed? yup
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Minutes, a day or two, whenever it feels right
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Do I think sex is okay? No. I think it's fantastic. And if you want to wait, wait. But I don't think you have to. I didn't.
Have you ever dated someone? Two that I consider significant, and one that could have been significant more recently. Then a dozen or so minor ones.
Are you dating someone now? No.
How long was your longest relationship? Five to six months.
Have you kissed? No. Never. Of course.
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How long should you wait until you kiss each other? I try to get the first kiss before I officially ask someone out, so I know it feels right beforehand.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Sex is ok, but the relationship shouldn't be based on it. Waiting til marriage is silly with protection options available. Like kissing, I'd like to make sure it feels right before I marry the girl.
Have you ever dated someone? Yes
Are you dating someone now? Yes
How long was your longest relationship? 7 months (engagement)
Have you kissed? No, I got engaged to a woman and never touched lips with her, not even once. :| :| :|
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? At the most a week (or 2nd date)
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? I think it's perfectly fine, I personally think it's great but I don't encourage irresponsible sex. Oreos are a MUST (don't ask)
Oh god the oreos :x
uhh..... oreos ._.
Quote from: Verity on February 15, 2010, 04:43:26 PM
Have you kissed? No, I got engaged to a woman and never touched lips with her, not even once. :| :| :|
Slightly off topic, but if you've ever seen the show 19 and Counting (or something like that), it's basically a show about a gigantic, extremely religious family. One of the oldest sons just got married, and the couple's first kiss was the kiss at the marriage, after the priest had dictated as such.
When he asked her to marry him, they gave each other a hug.
It was the most rage-inducing thing I've ever seen.
Quote from: Tony Stark on February 15, 2010, 05:06:20 PM
Slightly off topic, but if you've ever seen the show 19 and Counting (or something like that), it's basically a show about a gigantic, extremely religious family. One of the oldest sons just got married, and the couple's first kiss was the kiss at the marriage, after the priest had dictated as such.
When he asked her to marry him, they gave each other a hug.
It was the most rage-inducing thing I've ever seen.
That sounds like the story of Chelsey's dad/mom. They literally didn't get past holding hands until they were married. And that took until they were engaged.
Quote from: mackormoses on February 15, 2010, 05:08:53 PM
That sounds like the story of Chelsey's dad/mom. They literally didn't get past holding hands until they were married. And that took until they were engaged.
That's pretty crazy.
Quote from: Codename V on February 15, 2010, 01:13:14 AM
It's not sacred. If you feel it's appropriate and are comfortable with the person, I see no reason why not to so long as you're safe about it. Again, people make way too big a deal out of the whole ordeal.
I don't want to get into a religious discussion (about sacredness, that is), but I'm just posting to tell you that I mostly agree (again, my religion prevents me from having most forms of sex).
I will not date until I am 16 (I'm 14 now)
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? A little while, there's no set number on how long you should wait but don't rush into things.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Personally, and religiously, I would wait until marriage.
You would test drive a car. You would walk through a house. You would screw your soon to be spouse.
Have you ever dated someone? dated twice
Are you dating someone now? No
How long was your longest relationship? 8 Months
Have you kissed? Yes
Quote from: -X on February 17, 2010, 04:43:30 PM
I will not date until I am 16 (I'm 14 now)
i had my longest relationship when i was 14 going into high school and it was 8 months long. Then, she started to change and then just lost interest in me. Nothing feels worse than someone losing interest in you. :(
Ok, here is a big fact. Respect Women. I mean, geez do you actually want to think of having sex just to get laid? Do you want to be looked at like your a heartless jerk. I don't think so.
Quote from: Razgriz2489 on February 18, 2010, 03:28:13 PM
i had my longest relationship when i was 14 going into high school and it was 8 months long. Then, she started to change and then just lost interest in me. Nothing feels worse than someone losing interest in you. :(
Ok, here is a big fact. Respect Women. I mean, geez do you actually want to think of having sex just to get laid? Do you want to be looked at like your a heartless jerk. I don't think so.
I absolutely agree. I hate it so much when guys just try to get with girls for sex/physical pleasure and they don't really love them for who they are. If you don't, then why are you with her? Guys should wait as long as they have to before going for a girl so that they make the right couple.
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 19, 2010, 11:25:24 PM
I absolutely agree. I hate it so much when guys just try to get with girls for sex/physical pleasure and they don't really love them for who they are. If you don't, then why are you with her? Guys should wait as long as they have to before going for a girl so that they make the right couple.
So you'd only date a girl if you were in love?
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 19, 2010, 11:28:26 PM
So you'd only date a girl if you were in love?
That's correct; why would/should I date for another reason?
Because sometimes you and the other person are just looking for some fun or company for a bit?
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 19, 2010, 11:40:08 PM
That's correct; why would/should I date for another reason?
Either for FH's reason, or just because you want to for whatever reason, and then let the feelings build up into love.
Call me a hipacrit(I can't seem to spell that right) but I agree with HorribleToad
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 19, 2010, 11:28:26 PM
So you'd only date a girl if you were in love?
Love usually doesn't happen prior to dating. Anyways, I see no point in dating someone if you don't have feeling for them. Personally, I believe sex is pointless without love. But if you really want sex, why use someone? Why not find someone who doesn't give a poop and just say you wanna intercourse ? Rather than dating and hurting someone.
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 19, 2010, 11:25:24 PM
I absolutely agree. I hate it so much when guys just try to get with girls for sex/physical pleasure and they don't really love them for who they are. If you don't, then why are you with her? Guys should wait as long as they have to before going for a girl so that they make the right couple.
Though it may be unintentional, you're stereotyping guys here as the perpetrators.
My second major relationship, I was in love with the girl, she was in love with the sex. I didn't find out she had no feelings for me until after we broke up, she was in it solely for the sex.
Now, sex isn't a bad thing. The reason behind each person doing it though should be mutual.
If both people are doing it out of love, than it's good.
If both people are doing it out of lust, it's fine.
If one is for love, the other is for lust, then it leads to hurt and is bad.
...I havn't dated anyone..it's a scary thought to me..
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on February 19, 2010, 11:47:11 PM
Because sometimes you and the other person are just looking for some fun or company for a bit?
In my opinion this is just friendship. Couldn't friendship be just as good in this case, except without the lovemaking (of any kind--kissing included) and commitment? This is assuming that both people have the same feelings (in type and intensity) for each other.
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 20, 2010, 12:16:51 AM
Either for FH's reason, or just because you want to for whatever reason, and then let the feelings build up into love.
I've thought about this, but decided against it. Quite honestly, I'm very scared of a girl that I'm not interested in asking me out; I'd be put in a very awkward situation, as I'm currently looking into a certain someone.
Quote from: Mystic on February 20, 2010, 07:35:59 PM
Love usually doesn't happen prior to dating. Anyways, I see no point in dating someone if you don't have feeling for them. Personally, I believe sex is pointless without love. But if you really want sex, why use someone? Why not find someone who doesn't give a poop and just say you wanna intercourse ? Rather than dating and hurting someone.
I agree. If I understand correctly, you're saying that people should have feelings for each other (as in, love) before dating, but that it usually doesn't happen this way--is that correct? I'm just double-checking.
Quote from: Riddler on February 24, 2010, 05:41:09 AM
Though it may be unintentional, you're stereotyping guys here as the perpetrators.
My second major relationship, I was in love with the girl, she was in love with the sex. I didn't find out she had no feelings for me until after we broke up, she was in it solely for the sex.
Now, sex isn't a bad thing. The reason behind each person doing it though should be mutual.
If both people are doing it out of love, than it's good.
If both people are doing it out of lust, it's fine.
If one is for love, the other is for lust, then it leads to hurt and is bad.
I agree, but I wasn't stereotyping guys. I didn't specify an amount of guys that I thought would engage in that type of activity. I was just saying that I hate it when any guy does that, although girls can do it too. Personally, I think that guys do it more though.
That might be a stereotype, although it's also an opinion.
Quote from: L10 on February 20, 2010, 01:26:43 PM
Call me a hipacrit(I can't seem to spell that right) but I agree with HorribleToad
Thank you. Also, just so you don't have to look it up (in case you didn't already), it's spelled: "hypocrite."
Quote from: Chrona on February 24, 2010, 02:11:49 PM
...I havn't dated anyone..it's a scary thought to me..
It's very scary to me too, I must say. :|
Whoa, 6 different quotes in one post... that's like a new personal best
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 24, 2010, 03:49:19 PM
I've thought about this, but decided against it. Quite honestly, I'm very scared of a girl that I'm not interested in asking me out; I'd be put in a very awkward situation, as I'm currently looking into a certain someone.
Not interested? It could be because she's hot/pretty
/HAS GIANT TITS, and you hope you can build love up, or maybe you're friends with the girl, not officially in love, sound like a pretty good reason to go out to me.
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 24, 2010, 03:49:19 PM
In my opinion this is just friendship. Couldn't friendship be just as good in this case, except without the lovemaking (of any kind--kissing included) and commitment?
Because there's certain things you can't and won't do with friends or that they simply can't or won't provide. My point is, you don't have to commit to someone for life to be in a relationship with them. Sometimes it's simply because you're both looking for someone in the short term. Or simply someone to have fun with, which there's nothing wrong with if you're safe about it. This once again goes back to people putting sex on way too high a pedestal. You shouldn't sleep with anyone and everyone, but you don't have to spend the rest of your life with them either. Life's short, so you might as well enjoy it and have people to enjoy it with.
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 24, 2010, 03:49:19 PM
I agree. If I understand correctly, you're saying that people should have feelings for each other (as in, love) before dating, but that it usually doesn't happen this way--is that correct? I'm just double-checking.
I was saying two things. One, love usually doesn't happen before dating. That was in response to the idea of dating someone because you love them. Typically, love develops while dating.
Quote from: Chrona on February 24, 2010, 02:11:49 PM
...I havn't dated anyone..it's a scary thought to me..
It's appropriate your name is Chrona... as I feel like going into the Smith Corner every time I read this thread.
(http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3316/3564715144_7eb88e5996.jpg)
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 24, 2010, 04:01:22 PM
Not interested? It could be because she's hot/pretty/HAS GIANT TITS, and you hope you can build love up, or maybe you're friends with the girl, not officially in love, sound like a pretty good reason to go out to me.
By "not interested in," I mean "not attractive" and/or "not my type." It's just too bad that some girls are only one of those things (as in: only attractive or only my type). I just want the best possible relationship, so I'm trying to get with this one girl that I really like for many reasons.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on February 24, 2010, 04:05:25 PM
Because there's certain things you can't and won't do with friends or that they simply can't or won't provide. My point is, you don't have to commit to someone for life to be in a relationship with them. Sometimes it's simply because you're both looking for someone in the short term. Or simply someone to have fun with, which there's nothing wrong with if you're safe about it. This once again goes back to people putting sex on way too high a pedestal. You shouldn't sleep with anyone and everyone, but you don't have to spend the rest of your life with them either. Life's short, so you might as well enjoy it and have people to enjoy it with.
In short
(did I say that before?), I agree. I'm not talking about sex though, just so you know. But yes, I agree that if it's safe and mutual, it's fine to go out with people like that. I think that the key point there is the feeling of understanding between the couple, as in: why they're together and such. I'd just feel awkward being with someone like that when I'd know that there's a better girl out there for me (even if she's more difficult to ask out).
Quote from: Mystic on February 24, 2010, 08:51:43 PM
I was saying two things. One, love usually doesn't happen before dating. That was in response to the idea of dating someone because you love them. Typically, love develops while dating.
Thank you.
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 25, 2010, 07:27:44 PM
Thank you.
Thank you? I think you need to re-read what you said, and what he said; he's disagreeing with you.
This isn't a movie where you will meet the perfect person, fall in love, have sex and date, in reality love (usually) happens while you're dating the person and rarely before.
Quote from: Nayrman on February 24, 2010, 08:55:14 PM
It's appropriate your name is Chrona... as I feel like going into the Smith Corner every time I read this thread.
(http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3316/3564715144_7eb88e5996.jpg)
..They all went in the corner because of the poem...even the blue scary guy..
Quote from: HorribleToad on February 25, 2010, 07:27:44 PM
I'd know that there's a better girl out there for me (even if she's more difficult to ask out)
If you know she's out there, why the intercourse are you waiting around? If you're meant to be together, no point in waiting for them.
It's because you
don't know that there is someone better out there. This isn't guaranteed. There isn't always some happy ending. There is nothing to say that you will find the right person. Which is why I see nothing wrong with various short term and/or multiple long term relationships occurring before you potentially meet this supposed right person. Have fun and enjoy the company of people. If they don't work out in the end, move on and find someone else you enjoy spending time with. You exist for such a short time on this planet, and there is no reason to waste half of it looking for something that might not be there at all.
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 25, 2010, 10:18:22 PM
Thank you? I think you need to re-read what you said, and what he said; he's disagreeing with you.
This isn't a movie where you will meet the perfect person, fall in love, have sex and date, in reality love (usually) happens while you're dating the person and rarely before.
Really? A lot of my friends had friendships with guys for a long time where they were just friends, but the guy would fall for the girl and eventually win her over (aw, like a movie). Honestly, I think it could work either way. I tend to lean more towards dating first and friends later because I've tried relationships with longtime friends and it usually ends up badly.
Quote from: Freddy Krueger on February 26, 2010, 04:38:10 PM
Really? A lot of my friends had friendships with guys for a long time where they were just friends, but the guy would fall for the girl and eventually win her over (aw, like a movie). Honestly, I think it could work either way. I tend to lean more towards dating first and friends later because I've tried relationships with longtime friends and it usually ends up badly.
That's rare, but usually, when they "fall in love," it isn't love, they just feel attracted, then when they get to know each other more and get more intimate, they're like ".......What did I see in this chick again?"
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 26, 2010, 06:15:56 PM
That's rare, but usually, when they "fall in love," it isn't love, they just feel attracted, then when they get to know each other more and get more intimate, they're like ".......What did I see in this chick again?"
Exactly. Or in my case, ".......What did I see in this guy again?".
Quote from: Sync~ on February 15, 2010, 05:52:33 AM
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? I've had sex 4 times. You tell me.
How many partners? I wouldn't think twice in a row for that first time counts as two different times.
Quote from: Lotos on February 28, 2010, 06:18:21 PM
How many partners? I wouldn't think twice in a row for that first time counts as two different times.
Ok, i said this before, but having sex just to get laid is terribly wrong. I mean really, do want to be looked at as that pervert that everybody hates? I don't think so. I knew someone who did that, and ended up being spit upon and disgraced after.
I believe that sex should wait until in a serious relationship.
Quote from: Razgriz2489 on February 28, 2010, 07:26:39 PM
I believe that sex should wait until in a serious relationship.
I'm in a serious relationship. I've been in one for the passed year.
Quote from: Razgriz2489 on February 28, 2010, 07:26:39 PM
do want to be looked at as that pervert that everybody hates?
Except people don't hate people for going out and getting laid now and then? In fact, plenty of guys seems to congratulate each other for doing so. Girls don't really care either in most cases. There's nothing perverted about consensual casual sex. Potentially questionable? Sure. There's plenty of risks associated with doing so. But if you take the necessary precautions, nothing wrong with it. And of course, it's probably not wise to do so with anyone and everyone who's willing, but now and then with someone for fun is perfectly fine. Again, you folks keep placing sex on too high of a pedestal.
And I'm willing to bet the person who knew had more factors involved than you're sharing, or are even aware of.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on February 28, 2010, 08:01:10 PM
Again, you folks keep placing sex on too high of a pedestal.
Oh god this. You act as if it's the most sacred thing ever. It isn't. Like FH, there's nothing wrong with casual sex. It's a great way to release tension.
I care much much more about a good relationship than simply sex. Enough of a point to come off as a bit asexual-ish.
But I can't get either ;____;
Quote from: bluaki on March 01, 2010, 07:01:55 PM
I care much much more about a good relationship than simply sex. Enough of a point to come off as a bit asexual-ish.
But I can't get either ;____;
One day you'll meet a girl that knows computer science and you'll fall in love.
Meh, i'm pretty much done with dating. Too many serious relationships, too many lies D:
I have a girlfriend and I love her. :3
ooc: There's that word again....used so much....too much......yes....right there........
Quote from: L10 on March 03, 2010, 07:18:24 PM
ooc: There's that word again....used so much....too much......yes....right there........
...Love?
Quote from: (K)ilo (J)oules on March 03, 2010, 07:21:40 PM
...Love?
I think people are too quick to use the word "Love" these days. Too often people get love confused with lust.
Quote from: Turok on March 03, 2010, 07:25:19 PM
I think people are too quick to use the word "Love" these days. Too often people get love confused with lust.
DINGDINGDING! We have a winner!
Quote from: L10 on March 03, 2010, 07:34:18 PM
DINGDINGDING! We have a winner!
|: sarcasm isn't exactly appreciated...... :P
But yeah, all too often do I hear about people professing their "love" to someone, then breaking up six months later.
People don't know what love is, they just get weird feelings in their belly and have a crush and then they're all like "OMG I LOVE THIS FUCKING PERSON"
I often feel like I'm "in love," but after a while I am easily over them.
Quote from: Turok on March 03, 2010, 07:43:25 PM
|: sarcasm isn't exactly appreciated...... :P
But yeah, all too often do I hear about people professing their "love" to someone, then breaking up six months later.
I wasn't exactly being sarcastic, it just bugs me how much "love" is tossed around...
"I'm in love with him/her"
...2 months later...
"He/She's a intercourse ing slut/poop hole/other insults"
You can love someone then not love them. It's not like the word is reserved for people who go out for x amount of time. You put the word on too high a pedestal (just like sex).
You guys assume when you love, it's forever, sure the feeling is often confused with the lust feeling, but you can love and then stop loving. It's like 2 girls, best friends, they love each other, 2 years later they don't even notice each others existence for whatever reason. Not the best example, but as you may or may not know, I suck at examples.
Quote from: Totla on March 04, 2010, 02:38:04 PM
You can love someone then not love them. It's not like the word is reserved for people who go out for x amount of time. You put the word on too high a pedestal (just like sex).
This is what I mean, I would call that a crush, not love. There is also a difference from loving someone(like you would say to your parents) and being in love with someone.
Parental love and family love is 90% forever. It is rare for a parent/child to stop loving the child/parent, no matter how much they want to.
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on March 04, 2010, 03:44:54 PM
Parental love and family love is 90% forever. It is rare for a parent/child to stop loving the child/parent, no matter how much they want to.
Yeah, even the mothers of murderers still love their kids :|
Well there are different types of love:
Family
Friends
Lust
Bf/gf
Husband/wife
It's not like love means one thing all the time.
Quote from: Turok on March 04, 2010, 03:46:37 PM
Yeah, even the mothers of murderers still love their kids :|
Yes, they often do, but because they can't help it.
Though I couldn't tell if you were being sarcastic or being ":|" to that fact.
Quote from: Totla on March 04, 2010, 04:00:16 PM
Well there are different types of love:
Family/Friends
Husband/wife
It's not like love means one thing all the time.
fixed
I'v actually got my eye on someone ;0
Quote from: L10 on March 05, 2010, 03:24:55 PM
fixed
Quotelove [luhv] Show IPA noun, verb,loved, lov·ing.
–noun
1.
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2.
a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
3.
sexual passion or desire.
4.
a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.
5.
(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?
6.
a love affair; an intensely amorous incident; amour.
7.
sexual intercourse; copulation.
8.
(initial capital letter) a personification of sexual affection, as Eros or Cupid.
9.
affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.
10.
strong predilection, enthusiasm, or liking for anything: her love of books.
11.
the object or thing so liked: The theater was her great love.
12.
the benevolent affection of God for His creatures, or the reverent affection due from them to God.
13.
Chiefly Tennis. a score of zero; nothing.
14.
a word formerly used in communications to represent the letter L.
–verb (used with object)
15.
to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
16.
to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
17.
to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.
18.
to need or require; benefit greatly from: Plants love sunlight.
19.
to embrace and kiss (someone), as a lover.
20.
to have sexual intercourse with.
–verb (used without object)
21.
to have love or affection for another person; be in love.
Try again.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on March 06, 2010, 12:54:36 AM
Try again.
That disgusts me. But I guess that just means
If you're going to say "I love you" to a gf/bf then you better make sure they're interpreting it the same way.
edit: And F_H, you didn't leave a source, but I trust enough that you wouldn't go through the effort to fake that. And this also ends my discussion about that.
Have you ever dated someone? I have dated several people.
Are you dating someone now?It's complicated haha
How long was your longest relationship? 1 year and almost 11 months.
Have you kissed?Of course
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other?Until you're both ready
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Sex is a complicated thing. To me it's as emotional as it is spiritual. I think it's fine as long as you're mature enough to handle what might happen whether it be making a baby or you and the other person ends up splitting up.
Can't pass up a thread like this...so:
Have you ever dated someone? Yes, once.
Are you dating someone now? Yes, first time. O;
How long was your longest relationship? Uh...on my first and had our 4 month yesterday.
Have you kissed? Plenty. <3
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? I waited a month because I was skiddish as hell...now that I've done it and such probably second date or so or when you get the signal.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? I think sex is perfectly fine before marriage...hopefully I'll get me some before then ;p
Quote from: Kingmush on March 06, 2010, 07:27:46 PM
I think sex is perfectly fine before marriage...hopefully I'll get me some before then ;p
XD
Sorry for the long wait for the response. I've been kind of busy.Quote from: JrDude ♦ on February 25, 2010, 10:18:22 PM
Thank you? I think you need to re-read what you said, and what he said; he's disagreeing with you.
This isn't a movie where you will meet the perfect person, fall in love, have sex and date, in reality love (usually) happens while you're dating the person and rarely before.
Regardless of his support or opposition to my view, I was thanking him for explaining something to me.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on February 26, 2010, 02:33:41 AM
If you know she's out there, why the intercourse are you waiting around? If you're meant to be together, no point in waiting for them.
It's because you don't know that there is someone better out there. This isn't guaranteed. There isn't always some happy ending. There is nothing to say that you will find the right person. Which is why I see nothing wrong with various short term and/or multiple long term relationships occurring before you potentially meet this supposed right person. Have fun and enjoy the company of people. If they don't work out in the end, move on and find someone else you enjoy spending time with. You exist for such a short time on this planet, and there is no reason to waste half of it looking for something that might not be there at all.
Well, I
don't know if we're meant to be together, I just think that we might make a good couple. And yes, of course there isn't always a happy ending, but I'm trying to avoid that as much as possible. I basically do partake in your sort of dating method, except without the date--just friendship. I hope that that explains my "waiting around." And there's always the fact that for some people, it's difficult to ask someone out when you've rarely talked to them. We're probably not even considered friends; only acquaintances.
I'd ask you all to wish me luck, but I don't want to get with her like that.
It's about time I answered this :P
Have you ever dated someone? Yes
Are you dating someone now? Yes
How long was your longest relationship? ummm, 9 months
Have you kissed? Yes
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How long should you wait until you kiss each other? When you feel its the right time (emotionally, right place, whatever)
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? There's nothing wrong with sex, just don't overdo it. But also, know why you're having it with the person first. Is it just for fun? Or because you actually care about the person?
...i'll answer the whole thing now...
Have you ever dated someone?..no
Are you dating someone now? ...no
How long was your longest relationship?...
Have you kissed? ...No
...i'm too shy to approach anyone..
um ew idk why not i cannot pass up an opportunity to tell you guys i get sex
Have you ever dated someone? yes idk
Are you dating someone now? yes idk
How long was your longest relationship? um my current one which as of now is 358 days and counting
Have you kissed? yes idk
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? until you feel like it idk
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? whenever youre ready idk i have intercourse every other intercoursing day
Have you ever dated someone? yes
Are you dating someone now? yes
How long was your longest relationship? this one, 2 years and a few months
Have you kissed? lol yes
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? i don't care, personally
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? already done it, so i'd be a hypocrite if i said otherwise...
woo
I've dated two men in my life. ..Not at the same time, though.
I'm currently not dating anyone since I'm married.
My longest relationship was around 2 years.
And I have kissed before. I love kissing my hubby wubby cookie bear <33
You should wait until you're both comfortable for a kiss. Same with sex. I can't really say you should wait until you're married, 'cause it's none of my business to say that to anyone.
Quote from: Chrona on March 06, 2010, 11:55:09 PM
...i'm too shy to approach anyone..
Hi. Welcome to the club. |:
...Um...I was going to go somewhere with someone...where should we go?
Chuck E. Cheese.
Quote from: Chrona on March 11, 2010, 08:36:40 PM
...Um...I was going to go somewhere with someone...where should we go?
The park. Hold hands. I don't know; that's where I'd go.
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on March 11, 2010, 10:45:27 PM
Chuck E. Cheese.
lol, I actually like that place.
Quote from: RX-78-2 on March 12, 2010, 11:52:52 PM
The park. Hold hands. I don't know; that's where I'd go.
That's where we ended up doing :/
I have to admit to something that I didn't put into my original answer.
When I first started getting interested in the romantic side of things, I was a very timid person, and I didn't really know how to approach a woman (who really does?). On my very first GF I didn't approach her, she approached me.
I really didn't consider myself very attractive until women started approaching me themselves. Up to then I had really been a self-conscious person who couldn't really compete with the "Guy Who Everyone Liked". But yeah, I guess the moral of this short snippet is that good things really do come to those who wait.
Quote from: Verity on March 15, 2010, 11:02:28 AM
I have to admit to something that I didn't put into my original answer.
When I first started getting interested in the romantic side of things, I was a very timid person, and I didn't really know how to approach a woman (who really does?). On my very first GF I didn't approach her, she approached me.
I really didn't consider myself very attractive until women started approaching me themselves. Up to then I had really been a self-conscious person who couldn't really compete with the "Guy Who Everyone Liked". But yeah, I guess the moral of this short snippet is that good things really do come to those who wait.
He speaks the truth.
I never really considered myself attractive, but after talking to someone last night, I realized, I had been "asked out" three times in the past three years. The first one I hardly ever consider, second one I feel really guilty about, and the third one last year, she never really asked me out, I was just told that this one girl liked me. Each time I never saw it coming it was just like "oh by the way-"
Quote from: Verity on March 15, 2010, 11:02:28 AM
But yeah, I guess the moral of this short snippet is that good things really do come to those who wait.
Not those who wait to shower, though. Grooming is important, nerds!
Quote from: BOREDFANBOY on March 15, 2010, 02:49:26 PM
Not those who wait to shower, though. Grooming is important, nerds!
I groom, I shower, and I apparently have an awesome personality.
Why am I lonely right now? ;__;
Quote from: Lina Mayfleet on March 16, 2010, 02:23:03 AM
I groom, I shower, and I apparently have an awesome personality.
Why am I lonely right now? ;__;
You're Mexican.
You miss home.
Have you ever dated someone? Yes.
Are you dating someone now? Yes. Well sorta; I'm in dubai right now and even then through the past few months my relationship has been hardly existent asides from a few events. (Mainly one of my friends parties)
How long was your longest relationship? 1 year so far; More like my only.
Have you kissed? Yes.
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Depends on the relationship.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Depends on the relationship again; But that's just me.
Quote from: Natsu on March 14, 2010, 03:45:48 PM
That's where we ended up doing :/
"Doing?" Going? I guess both. Awesome though.
Quote from: BOREDFANBOY on March 15, 2010, 02:49:26 PM
Not those who wait to shower, though. Grooming is important, nerds!
I absolutely agree. To go along with this, you also need to be well-dressed. Not necessarily the most fashionable trends or anything, but something that's in good condition (no rips, holes, etc.), fits, and matches with the other stuff you're wearing. Girls notice stuff like that.
Have you ever dated someone? No.
Are you dating someone now? N/A
How long was your longest relationship? N/A
Have you kissed? N/A
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? End of the first serious date if it goes well, but I'm talking a basic peck, not French kissing or making out.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married?
Most high schoolers (intercourse , even most college kids) aren't mature enough to handle sexual activity responsibly. Then again, lots of adults aren't, either. If people want to sleep around, that's their business, and I don't believe in restricting such activity, but they should be held responsible for any centipedes that they get (and any medical costs that arise), and you won't catch me dead in an open relationship.
Call me a prude, archaic, whatever, but I think that sex should be on a pedestal, and should be reserved for the one person you're totally willing to commit yourself to. Getting back to the original question, marriage is a construct and, on its own, is only a ceremony that represents two people spending their lives together. Some people aren't fully vested in each other even after they marry. Therefore, if you know that you're completely and utterly vested in one person, it's fine. "Completely vested" can be a cloudy notion, especially when hormones are raging in adolescence, and a person needs to do some serious and prolonged soul-searching before they truly know whether or not they are ready. Sex reinforces more than physical connections; it also is a way to express emotional and mental ones, and even if people somehow manage to have active sex lives with multiple people without picking up massive amounts of emotional baggage, I think that part of the beauty is lost without the factor of commitment built in.
Dating is overrated. Dating intercourse ing sucks. Dating is the most stupid thing in the world. I hate dating, that's why I always avoided serious relationships until high school (where I still should have avoided serious relationships, but whatever).
I'll be friends with guys, I'll release a little sexual tension once in a while with a guy friend, the whole "friends with benefits" deal if their into it. But I don't want to date. Why? Dating is basically becoming best friends with someone while restricting yourself to them. And then comes the jealousy and the fighting and the constant lying and all that poop.
And it sucks because that person is your friend. And that's how you want them to stay - as a friend. So screw dating. It comes with a bundle of unnecessary poop that I don't want or need.
Oh, and marriage is overrated, too. At this moment in time, I think marriage is stupid and I don't want to do it. I'm not going to spend time and money to do something that has a 50% chance of failing. Maybe my boyfriend can just buy me a ring and we can be engaged until we finally break up - which is nearly inevitable.
I thought I posted in here somewhere, oh well.
Have you ever dated someone? Physically, 1. Online, uh, 4
Are you dating someone now? Number 5
How long was your longest relationship? A year?
Have you kissed? The first one, and did more than that.
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Who knows.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Don't care
I'm not into Online Relationships like I was before, as patient as I am, I don't care for them. I'm with someone right now In Canada, but uh, yeah, I'm not into it like I used to be.
Thing is, I've never asked any of those 5 out, they all just sort of drifted in.
I'm proud to say that I'm engaged, and have been for half a year. The chemistry between her and I is just unexplainable so there really isn't any other decision to make other than the one we've made. The knot probably won't be completely tied until after college though, where she hopes to become a Psychologist and I hope to be a Physicist.
Quote from: Zero on March 24, 2010, 11:22:51 AM
I'm proud to say that I'm engaged, and have been for half a year. The chemistry between her and I is just unexplainable so there really isn't any other decision to make other than the one we've made. The knot probably won't be completely tied until after college though, where she hopes to become a Psychologist and I hope to be a Physicist.
Aw, how'd you ask her?
Have you ever dated someone? Yes.
Are you dating someone now? Nope.
How long was your longest relationship? Like... almost 2 years?
Have you kissed? Yes.
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Depends on the relationship.
Do you think sex is OK? I think it's just dandy.
Just got out of a 10 month relationship. He cheated a few times, we're working on trust and such right now... to see if anything could happen between us in the future.
Quote from: Ricky Martin on March 22, 2010, 12:45:13 AM
Have you ever dated someone? No.
Are you dating someone now? N/A
How long was your longest relationship? N/A
Have you kissed? N/A
---
(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? End of the first serious date if it goes well, but I'm talking a basic peck, not French kissing or making out.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married?
Most high schoolers (intercourse , even most college kids) aren't mature enough to handle sexual activity responsibly. Then again, lots of adults aren't, either. If people want to sleep around, that's their business, and I don't believe in restricting such activity, but they should be held responsible for any centipedes that they get (and any medical costs that arise), and you won't catch me dead in an open relationship.
Call me a prude, archaic, whatever, but I think that sex should be on a pedestal, and should be reserved for the one person you're totally willing to commit yourself to. Getting back to the original question, marriage is a construct and, on its own, is only a ceremony that represents two people spending their lives together. Some people aren't fully vested in each other even after they marry. Therefore, if you know that you're completely and utterly vested in one person, it's fine. "Completely vested" can be a cloudy notion, especially when hormones are raging in adolescence, and a person needs to do some serious and prolonged soul-searching before they truly know whether or not they are ready. Sex reinforces more than physical connections; it also is a way to express emotional and mental ones, and even if people somehow manage to have active sex lives with multiple people without picking up massive amounts of emotional baggage, I think that part of the beauty is lost without the factor of commitment built in.
Sorry for not replying sooner, but THANK YOU.
Quote from: RX-78-2 (TerribleFrog) on March 31, 2010, 10:54:24 PM
Sorry for not replying sooner, but THANK YOU.
...you're...welcome...I guess?
Quote from: KJ on March 24, 2010, 08:35:05 PM
Aw, how'd you ask her?
We were out one night and I just popped the question. Nothing overly dramatic or anything. I had the ring saved for a while. She was thrilled, and still is. This was last August.
It's definitely something I'll never forget.
Going on a date tonight with my Girlfriend. Haven't been able to see her in a while. :)
Quote from: AcerChris on April 06, 2010, 07:49:05 AM
Going on a date tonight with my Girlfriend. Haven't been able to see her in a while. :)
Well intercourse you sir. -_-
haven't been on a date in I don't know how long. =/
I'm seriously thinking about giving up on my ex; he likes a ton of his friends anyway so I'm sure it won't be that hard for him.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 06, 2010, 11:09:31 AM
Well intercourse you sir. -_-
haven't been on a date in I don't know how long. =/
I'm seriously thinking about giving up on my ex; he likes a ton of his friends anyway so I'm sure it won't be that hard for him.
Sorry to hear that |:
Quote from: AcerChris on April 06, 2010, 11:12:00 AM
Sorry to hear that |:
It's cool. I'm just sick of the game. I waited a year to date him. We dated 10 months. Cheated on me 3 times. Now he wants me to wait for him to "fix" his cheating problem.
I want to but it's like... What exactly am I waiting for?
Kimberly, I know it's hard to break away from, but you gotta do it. Just stop seeing him.
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 06, 2010, 11:41:52 AM
Kimberly, I know it's hard to break away from, but you gotta do it. Just stop seeing him.
Robert Ryan Wassmuth. He's my best friend. Do you realize how hard that'd be?
Quote from: K-Cee on April 06, 2010, 11:43:52 AM
Robert Ryan Wassmuth. He's my best friend. Do you realize how hard that'd be?
Yeah, I do.
But the jerk wouldn't even drive you home because it was a waste of gas.
You need to break away from him.
There should be no "extra chances" for him, he cheated three times and from what you've described, he's a dick.
You're a pretty darn cool girl and are absolutely pretty, find someone else. Stop wasting your time.
He's really not that bad of a guy. He just has a problem. And a waste of gas isn't exactly what he said, but it does make sense. There was no point in taking me home that night if he had to go to my city the next morning anyway.. even if I DID want to go home. And I swear I'm not making excuses for him.
This isn't me defending him as a girlfriend, because that's certainly not what I am, it's me defending him as a friend.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 06, 2010, 05:38:30 PM
He's really not that bad of a guy. He just has a problem. And a waste of gas isn't exactly what he said, but it does make sense. There was no point in taking me home that night if he had to go to my city the next morning anyway.. even if I DID want to go home. And I swear I'm not making excuses for him.
This isn't me defending him as a girlfriend, because that's certainly not what I am, it's me defending him as a friend.
Whether you want to believe it or not, you're making excuses for him.
He wouldn't drive you home that night because it'd be "a waste of gas" since e was going to your city the next day... but he didn't go to your city that day and you had to wait until 2 or 3am that next night for your mom to pick you up.
YOU wanted to go home and you had to stay an entire day and night longer because he wouldn't drive you.
He's a dick. Even if it DID make sense in the first place, you WANTED to go home. As a good person he should have brought you, wasted gas or not. Then to have the audacity to not bring you the next day because he decided not to go to school? Really?
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 06, 2010, 05:40:48 PM
Whether you want to believe it or not, you're making excuses for him.
He wouldn't drive you home that night because it'd be "a waste of gas" since e was going to your city the next day... but he didn't go to your city that day and you had to wait until 2 or 3am that next night for your mom to pick you up.
YOU wanted to go home and you had to stay an entire day and night longer because he wouldn't drive you.
He's a dick. Even if it DID make sense in the first place, you WANTED to go home. As a good person he should have brought you, wasted gas or not. Then to have the audacity to not bring you the next day because he decided not to go to school? Really?
Chill out Rob... I don't even care about the situation anymore. Why are you getting so worked up over it?
Quote from: K-Cee on April 06, 2010, 05:42:49 PM
Chill out Rob... I don't even care about the situation anymore. Why are you getting so worked up over it?
Not to jump into a random conversation, but he just cares a lot...trust me.
Rob means well but he can sometimes be very...umm...idk the word...but he doesn't mean to get worked up.
Sorry for butting in :(
Quote from: Skelator2112 on April 06, 2010, 08:07:56 PM
Not to jump into a random conversation, but he just cares a lot...trust me.
Rob means well but he can sometimes be very...umm...idk the word...but he doesn't mean to get worked up.
Sorry for butting in :(
lol it's cool man. it's a public forum. oh and this post might look a little weird because i'm doing it on my phone... but anyway. yeah. i know I need to let go. especially because he spent alot of time around girls that he likes. well... his "friends". i just don't know whether or not to expect anything to happen between any of them although he told me nothing would because he "respects" their boyfriends.
Sounds like me and this one chick.
Dumped me, then the next day hooked up with a close friend of mine.
Now? She keeps calling me the perfect guy and to give her a chance.
She had her chance. Twice. I'm not gonna give her a third one.
You sound like my sis and how she describes her boyfriend, she doesn't listen to me when I tell her to stop seeing him, and she really needs to, but yours is actually worse, dump the dumbass.
Quote from: Sync~ on April 06, 2010, 08:46:27 PM
Sounds like me and this one chick.
Dumped me, then the next day hooked up with a close friend of mine.
Now? She keeps calling me the perfect guy and to give her a chance.
She had her chance. Twice. I'm not gonna give her a third one.
You go girl!Tell that woman her place! *thumbs up*
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Well my girlfriend, Jessica(I'm going to call her that from now on, doesn't seem like I'm rubbing it in that way), asked me yesterday if I really wanted to go out with her. This kinda threw me off. Me being me just said "I don't know" as I thought she would want to go out with this Sam girl. Then after that she said "Well it's up to you, I just want you to know that." I was confused because I thought it would be up to her if she liked this Sam girl so much.
Then a good friend named Kilroy/Syd pointed out that she probably can't decide who she wants to be with more, me or Sam. So, she's now dropped the decision to me. Me being terrible at making decisions got really lost after that and went to talk to my friend that originally set us up. He told me to just go out with her. Go with the flow, be myself. She'll see how overly awesome I am and forget about Sam and all will be well.
y/y
tl;dr: I have a plan.
/vent
...I'm dating someone for the first time...it's nice..
Bah... haven't dated/went out with anyone since 8th grade. Keeping a cold heart seems so much easier and I think I'll stick with it for now.
Quote from: Sh0rTi on April 07, 2010, 06:59:54 PM
Bah... haven't dated/went out with anyone since 8th grade. Keeping a cold heart seems so much easier and I think I'll stick with it for now.
Heh.
I tried the whole cold-heart thing. It all went to hell though.
I can't do it anymore, I really have a desire to be in a relationship. Fucking sucks man. =\
Quote from: Sh0rTi on April 07, 2010, 06:59:54 PM
Bah... haven't dated/went out with anyone since 8th grade. Keeping a cold heart seems so much easier and I think I'll stick with it for now.
This is me; except I learned the hard way. :|
Quote from: Sync~ on April 07, 2010, 10:31:01 PM
Heh.
I tried the whole cold-heart thing. It all went to hell though.
I can't do it anymore, I really have a desire to be in a relationship. Fucking sucks man. =\
Ooo, that stinks. I'm also a bit of this, but the first part of this post basically describes me for the last 3 years.
Have you ever dated someone? No.
Are you dating someone now? No......
How long was your longest relationship? N/A
Have you kissed? No.
---
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? Until both people involved in the relationship are ready for it. It shouldn't feel forced by either person, and it should come as a natural affection for one another when they both feel the time is right. If one is ready and the other isn't, then the one who's ready should be willing to wait for the other to be ready and be understanding of how the other feels. If neither is ready, that doesn't mean there isn't necessarily a connection yet, it just means the connection hasn't come to kissing one another yet. For different people in different relationships, it can come at different times.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? The above can apply to sex as well in most ways, but should be considered quite a bit more first. I think that it should either be discussed between the two involved in the relationship before they decide to have sex, or that if they're both feeling ready to make that step forward and it feels right that they should go ahead. As far as marriage is concerned when considering sex, I don't really think it should make a difference. If both are ready to have sex but aren't married yet, and by ready I really mean ready, then I don't think that concept handed from modern society should interfere. There are many factors to think about, such as how it would affect each person's family, if it interferes with either's moral and/or religious beliefs, being safe while doing it, and much much more.
So. My boyfriend is moving out. With a vagina cleaning device bag that no one intercourse ing likes. Me and my boyfriend's sister are mad. Oh and my sister as well because her boyfriend is moving in with them too. We ALL know the intercourse ing vagina cleaning device bag is going to be a dick because his brother is the one who bought the house. He's going to try and tell them who can come over and when they can. And he doesn't like Me, my sister, or my boyfriend's sister. So basically we won't be visiting. They don't understand how much they're going to lose by doing this. So basically my relationship is pretty much going to poop. Why would we want to go visit if the intercourse ing vagina cleaning device thinks he's going to run poop? No. I'd rather feel uncomfortable ANYWHERE else.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 25, 2010, 07:28:42 PM
So. My boyfriend is moving out. With a vagina cleaning device bag that no one intercourse ing likes. Me and my boyfriend's sister are mad. Oh and my sister as well because her boyfriend is moving in with them too. We ALL know the intercourse ing vagina cleaning device bag is going to be a dick because his brother is the one who bought the house. He's going to try and tell them who can come over and when they can. And he doesn't like Me, my sister, or my boyfriend's sister. So basically we won't be visiting. They don't understand how much they're going to lose by doing this. So basically my relationship is pretty much going to poop. Why would we want to go visit if the intercourse ing vagina cleaning device thinks he's going to run poop? No. I'd rather feel uncomfortable ANYWHERE else.
I accidentally lost your texts mixed in with a poopload of happy birthday texts/facebook messages, so I missed what you said and my phone died before I could text you again, but I guess this is what you were talking about?
Dump his intercourse ing ass. Get with Kayla.
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 28, 2010, 12:48:11 AM
I accidentally lost your texts mixed in with a poopload of happy birthday texts/facebook messages, so I missed what you said and my phone died before I could text you again, but I guess this is what you were talking about?
Dump his intercourse ing ass. Get with Kayla.
lol. plans fell through and now he can't move out.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 28, 2010, 08:07:44 AM
lol. plans fell through and now he can't move out.
why
Quote from: K-Cee on April 28, 2010, 08:07:44 AM
lol. plans fell through and now he can't move out.
Fucking
wonderful :|
Quote from: ClassicKoopa on April 28, 2010, 10:32:36 AM
why
Two people backed out because they have to pay car insurance now. So that leaves my boyfriend and the jaskass that no one likes, and the two of them can't afford it alone. :)
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 28, 2010, 12:40:47 PM
Fucking wonderful :|
hush...
Dating...man. It's so weird.
I've been single for a whole year now and now I'm ready to "get back in the game" as some may say. And there's this girl I am mad into and she's into me and we planned on dating. But I was just accepted to SUNY Albany so I'm going away and she's considering not going through with dating. Which honestly makes sense but it still bums me out :(
I haven't dated anyone yet................ Nuff said.
Quote from: Red Engineer on June 22, 2010, 09:52:45 AM
Dating...man. It's so weird.
I've been single for a whole year now and now I'm ready to "get back in the game" as some may say. And there's this girl I am mad into and she's into me and we planned on dating. But I was just accepted to SUNY Albany so I'm going away and she's considering not going through with dating. Which honestly makes sense but it still bums me out :(
Hey, what are you doing? Why wouldn't you convince her to have a summer fling and see where it goes? Why are you so easily accepting defeat if you are, ahem, "mad into" her?
You need to sack up and get this fixed.
I hate dating, like going on dates 'n stuff, meeting new people. I have a boyfriend that i've had for almost a year now. He is a childhood friend from Arizona, where I was born.
I think the first person I (Very briefly) dated, was this girl when I was like... 12. First time I had sex... Totally awkward. 'nuff said
As for when you should have sex or kiss someone... Whenever the hell you want. But at least try to be with someone special that you've been dating for a while, and not just a quick intercourse .
Have you ever dated someone? Well, no. However, I am on the road! I finally found a girl I like WHO IS SINGLE AND SHOWS INTEREST FOR ME! YAY!
Are you dating someone now? No. But, again, I'm getting there
How long was your longest relationship? this question is null and void.
Have you kissed? Not yet...
---
(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? A week. Or less.
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married Well, it WOULD be common sense to intercourse with responsibility. But, that's not necessarily while you are married, so yes, I guess it is.
My sister is trying to get me with her husbands nice.where not related or nothing,but I just don't know how to talk to her.I need advice
That was such horrible grammar I almost cried. Took a while before I realized what you were trying to say. I thought you were trying to say "My sister is trying to get me with her husband. Nice. blah didly blah" Creepy 3 way.
lrn2spell niece.
Quote from: JrDude φ on June 23, 2010, 05:41:34 PM
That was such horrible grammar I almost cried. Took a while before I realized what you were trying to say. I thought you were trying to say "My sister is trying to get me with her husband. Nice. blah didly blah" Creepy 3 way.
lrn2spell niece.
Sorry about that,I was busy typing and forgot to check my gramme, but if you have a problem with my spelling let say we settle this like men
BRAWL!
Quote from: Jayat on June 23, 2010, 04:39:36 PM
My sister is trying to get me with her husbands nice.where not related or nothing,but I just don't know how to talk to her.I need advice
Quote from: Jayat on June 23, 2010, 06:13:55 PM
Sorry about that,I was busy typing and forgot to check my gramme, but if you have a problem with my spelling let say we settle this like men
BRAWL!
lol. It's funny because you spelled "grammar" incorrectly and forgot the "'s" at the end of "let." Let's just say that your grammar was less-than-perfect here as well. The thing is, JrDude φ's a Grammar Nazi (which isn't necessarily a bad thing), and so am I, but the difference between us is that he cares about your grammar and I don't--as it's none of my business.
So don't worry about your grammar and spelling. As long as we can understand you, it's fine. Of course, in this case, someone did have a bit of trouble understanding your post at first, so I guess you could be a bit more careful about it. Might I suggest a brief proofread of your reply before you post it? I know it sounds hypocritical to say that it's not my business and that I don't care but then say something that contradicts it, but I'm just trying to help with this exception.
You could find something in common with your sister's husband's niece. That usually works. Also, if you want a really good, deep relationship (in other words, something sentimental and "in-sync") you actually have to listen her. Good luck! ;)
I normally try not to care, but when it sounds like he wants to 3 way with his sister and her husband, it's kinda needed to be pointed out.
Although it may not have sounded like it (especially with what I said earlier), I do agree with you. It's just that your tone sounded a bit negative all-around. It's really of no consequence though.
Look you both can get some of this
Quote from: BOREDFANBOY on June 23, 2010, 02:47:42 PM
Hey, what are you doing? Why wouldn't you convince her to have a summer fling and see where it goes? Why are you so easily accepting defeat if you are, ahem, "mad into" her?
You need to sack up and get this fixed.
Great idea Bender...too bad I already decided that first. Shoulda added this to my post, I convinced her to try "dating' 'till I leave and we'll see if we're in a position for a distance type relationship thingy.
H god I haven't been on here in forever. How's everything going guys? Alright so I've got a ton to say about this topic. A little pissy right now because my "boyfriend" won't tell a few of his friends he has a girlfriend. Like he lies to them when he's with me. It's intercourse ing bullpoop.
Quote from: K-Cee on June 25, 2010, 10:15:24 PM
H god I haven't been on here in forever. How's everything going guys? Alright so I've got a ton to say about this topic. A little pissy right now because my "boyfriend" won't tell a few of his friends he has a girlfriend. Like he lies to them when he's with me. It's intercourse ing bullpoop.
That's so intercoursing dumb. What's his reason for lying? There is no real excuse but still D:
Quote from: Red Engineer on June 26, 2010, 05:06:57 AM
That's so intercoursing dumb. What's his reason for lying? There is no real excuse but still D:
Really, that guy needs to grow a pair.
Quote from: Allegory on June 28, 2010, 07:37:49 PM
Really, that guy needs to grow a pair.
Really, that guy is doing it so he can keep his options open. It's up to you how you want to react to that.
Broke up with my girlfriend friday. I'm 80% fine now.
Quote from: BOREDFANBOY on June 28, 2010, 08:19:37 PM
Really, that guy is doing it so he can keep his options open. It's up to you how you want to react to that.
Ya, but if you say your with someone, you need to own up to it.
wub wub wub
So that girl I convinced to try a long distance thing while I go to school? Well I went to a get together thing at her house and she was hitting on another guy right in front of me...-_-
I gots a new girlfriend. Almost two months, she's in that picture up dar.
In order:
No.
No.
No.
No.
No.
>talking to this cute/hot blonde I like who I met in college on facebook
>somehow the topic of crushes comes up
>she asks me if I have anybody I like from school
>I say "do you?"
>we spam maybes
>she finally tells me that she likes this one boy i sort of know (seen him around)
>i get nervous and start sweating. i feel a panic attack coming
>tell her i gotta go and that i'll tell her who i like later
>she texts me abouit 10mins later
>"it isn't me is it?"
>my eyes start getting teary
>turn the phone off
(http://i992.photobucket.com/albums/af46/Belatonin/1276987880809-1.jpg)
Quote from: Persephone on September 24, 2010, 01:49:30 PM
>talking to this cute/hot blonde I like who I met in college on facebook
>somehow the topic of crushes comes up
>she asks me if I have anybody I like from school
>I say "do you?"
>we spam maybes
>she finally tells me that she likes this one boy i sort of know (seen him around)
>i get nervous and start sweating. i feel a panic attack coming
>tell her i gotta go and that i'll tell her who i like later
>she texts me abouit 10mins later
>"it isn't me is it?"
>my eyes start getting teary
>turn the phone off
(http://i992.photobucket.com/albums/af46/Belatonin/1276987880809-1.jpg)
;-;
Damn this must be a successful thread to still be around after so long. Either that or... this place is just always dead.
ANYWAY. You should add some new questions, JrDude, to keep things fresh after over 10 pages of discussion. Or not. Doesn't really matter.
I don't really have anything new to add. Um, two year anniversary coming up. If anyone has random suggestions as to what to do or what to get a guy, share please. I'd prefer just creating something with my extremely untalented talent, because I'm a cheap, uncreative ninny sentimentalist who believes money makes the world go round isn't needed to give someone something they'll love.
Still single, still untouched.
Yep. Not a single thing changed in eight months. Life's pretty great like that.
Only girl who's talked to me consistently my entire collegiate career (3rd year, 1st semester) I'm 99% sure is gay. God intercourse ing darn it all...
Quote from: Poet Laureate on October 22, 2010, 01:56:58 PM
Damn this must be a successful thread to still be around after so long. Either that or... this place is just always dead.
ANYWAY. You should add some new questions, JrDude, to keep things fresh after over 10 pages of discussion. Or not. Doesn't really matter.
I don't really have anything new to add. Um, two year anniversary coming up. If anyone has random suggestions as to what to do or what to get a guy, share please. I'd prefer just creating something with my extremely untalented talent, because I'm a cheap, uncreative ninny sentimentalist who believes money makes the world go round isn't needed to give someone something they'll love.
Excuse my long absence and ignorance, but what talent might that be?
Making something is great though. Really. If I had a girlfriend, I'd feel like the luckiest guy in the world if she actually spent her time and effort making me something--no matter what it was or if it was even good or not. Trust me, if he's sentimental and/or appreciative of art and effort, he'll love it.
Just in case, though, you should couple it with another gift. This'll also make your handmade one seem
that much more special. You've taken AP English classes, haven't you? It's called "juxtaposition."
On a side note, the girl that I have a huge crush on might have a girlfriend...
:(
Quote from: RX-78-2 on October 27, 2010, 04:44:08 PM
Excuse my long absence and ignorance, but what talent might that be?
Making something is great though. Really. If I had a girlfriend, I'd feel like the luckiest guy in the world if she actually spent her time and effort making me something--no matter what it was or if it was even good or not. Trust me, if he's sentimental and/or appreciative of art and effort, he'll love it.
Just in case, though, you should couple it with another gift. This'll also make your handmade one seem that much more special. You've taken AP English classes, haven't you? It's called "juxtaposition."
On a side note, the girl that I have a huge crush on might have a girlfriend...
:(
We only have senior AP English, so I'm taking it this year.
And for our one year anniversary I made him a CD with 12 songs on it, each one representing a month of our relationship. Or something like that. I don't remember. But to make it more interesting I created a scavenger hunt throughout my house (hiding the CD and hiding clues all around so that he'd need to find each clue in order to lead him to the CD). That was fun to make. I wanted do that again, but I don't want to do the same thing every year or else it will get repetitious, stale and unoriginal.
Also, that girl you like sounds like a keeper. As long as she's bi, not just a lesbian.
Every guy likes a surprise BJ.
Jus' Sayin!
Had a girl ask me out, tried the whole dating thing for a while, then broke up. Another girl asked me out recently. Turned her down. And now I believe another girl has a crush on me.
:|
Quote from: Magnum on October 30, 2010, 12:45:07 AM
Had a girl ask me out, tried the whole dating thing for a while, then broke up. Another girl asked me out recently. Turned her down. And now I believe another girl has a crush on me.
:|
What right do you have to make the indifferent face!? WHAT RIGHT DO YOU HAVE!?!?!?!
Quote from: Magnum on October 30, 2010, 12:45:07 AM
Had a girl ask me out, tried the whole dating thing for a while, then broke up. Another girl asked me out recently. Turned her down. And now I believe another girl has a crush on me.
:|
Well aren't you sexy poop. D:
Quote from: Magnum on October 30, 2010, 12:45:07 AM
Had a girl ask me out, tried the whole dating thing for a while, then broke up. Another girl asked me out recently. Turned her down. And now I believe another girl has a crush on me.
:|
A harem in the making.
I got asked out by this one girl about a week or two ago. Before, she approached I thought to myself, "There's no way I'd even think about touching that." Then she came to me and started asking me questions like if I was a senior, had a job, and a car. Asnwered "no" to all. Turns out that she has a kid and one on the way, and I couldn't even tell. Still dodging her even today.
Not sure how big an ass that makes me...
I broke up with my last girlfriend.
But now I have another one.
So : D
Quote from: SkyMyl on October 22, 2010, 04:02:12 PM
Still single, still untouched.
Yep. Not a single thing changed in eight months. Life's pretty great like that.
We should get together and have a MANLY PICNIC!
...Yeah, I'm depressing. And too uninteresting for romance.
Single again. I think i'm done with the real world for a while.
Time to revert to the old me.
IT'S OVERRATED.
Quote from: Doodle on November 22, 2010, 05:26:39 PM
IT'S OVERRATED.
THAT'S WHAT PEOPLE WHO CAN'T GET A DATE SAY.
No girlfriend = no responsibility, no guilt, no spending money on someone else who wouldn't do the same for me = no stress.
I'm enjoying being single, by choice. If anyone asked me i'd probably say no.
Quote from: Kianglo on November 22, 2010, 07:32:35 PM
No girlfriend = no responsibility, no guilt, no spending money on someone else who wouldn't do the same for me = no stress.
I'm enjoying being single, by choice. If anyone asked me i'd probably say no.
QuoteI'm enjoying being single, by choice. If anyone asked me i'd probably say no.
Oh poop, is it fiction week in the Dating thread? Then if Julie K Smith and Salma Hayek came up and wanted to show me their boobs, I'd probably say no. I'd tell them I'm married, and I couldn't possibly bear witness to their amazing mellons, and walk away with my eyes averted like a gentlemen. I mean,
no amazing tits= no erection= no stress, right? I choose not to gaze upon their heavenly figures, feeling in my heart that every part of my body, including my eyes, remain purely faithful to my loving wife.
The only reason you can say that Kaos is because no one would ever ask you, and if anyone did, they'd probably be horribly ugly or something. That's why you can, why you do say that is probably because you have become so desperately lonely that you convinced yourself to believe a lie.
Quote from: BOREDFANBOY on November 22, 2010, 09:02:59 PM
Oh poop, is it fiction week in the Dating thread? Then if Julie K Smith and Salma Hayek came up and wanted to show me their boobs, I'd probably say no. I'd tell them I'm married, and I couldn't possibly bear witness to their amazing mellons, and walk away with my eyes averted like a gentlemen. I mean,
no amazing tits= no erection= no stress, right? I choose not to gaze upon their heavenly figures, feeling in my heart that every part of my body, including my eyes, remain purely faithful to my loving wife.
I said I didn't want a
girlfriend, as in a committed one. When I'm older and have more money, sure. But not now.
Besides, 95% of all relationships that start in my particular high school end within 2 years.
Quote from: JrDude 益 on November 23, 2010, 01:21:43 AM
The only reason you can say that Kaos is because no one would ever ask you, and if anyone did, they'd probably be horribly ugly or something. That's why you can, why you do say that is probably because you have become so desperately lonely that you convinced yourself to believe a lie.
Wait, are you talking to me? Because if you are, that first sentence doesn't make sense. D:
Quote from: Phaze on November 22, 2010, 05:46:48 PM
THAT'S WHAT PEOPLE WHO CAN'T GET A DATE SAY.
BUT I SORT OF DID.
Quote from: Doodle on November 30, 2010, 02:54:05 PM
BUT I SORT OF DID.
But you totally let that one go to hell.
YOU HAD A HOTTIE BRO.
YOU LET THAT SHIT DIE DOWN!
>Doodle had a hottie
Doodle. If something like that EVER happens to you. You have to do your best to keep it. It won't ever happen again.
my love life:
(http://i34.tinypic.com/2qcftw0.jpg)
Quote from: Persephone on December 17, 2010, 06:12:21 AM
my love life:
(http://i34.tinypic.com/2qcftw0.jpg)
is that david the gnome?
Maybe i'll try dating a guy next.
Quote from: Magnum on December 22, 2010, 09:22:32 AM
I hear Mack's single
:P
But I don't know if he's sexually attractive :3
Quote from: Kayo on December 22, 2010, 01:02:05 PM
Suddenly, team change.
Well my variety opened up by a ton ;)
Quote from: Positive Vibes on December 22, 2010, 07:56:54 PM
Well my variety opened up by a ton ;)
Does this explain your rainbowy avatar?
Quote from: Kayo on December 23, 2010, 04:20:05 AM
Does this explain your rainbowy avatar?
Nah ;). Peace and Love brother.
Quote from: Positive Vibes on December 23, 2010, 01:41:45 PM
*Confused look*
What, are you tired of being Watched or something?
Quote from: Kayo on December 23, 2010, 01:42:42 PM
What, are you tired of being Watched or something?
I couldn't care less about that.
Lies
DUDE! I WANNA BE WATCHED!
Quote from: Magnum on December 23, 2010, 05:49:00 PM
DUDE! I WANNA BE WATCHED!
I remember being watched...
Starting to get off topic here, guys.
Quote from: SkyMyl on October 22, 2010, 04:02:12 PM
Still single, still untouched.
Yep. Not a single thing changed in twelve months. Life's pretty great like that.
Quote from: Kayo on December 23, 2010, 04:45:43 PM
You're not watched anymore, Junior?
Do you see a "watched" thingy when I post still?
Quote from: JrDude 益 on December 23, 2010, 11:51:15 PM
Do you see a "watched" thingy when I post still?
Keep the peace <3
Quote from: Positive Vibes on December 23, 2010, 11:59:29 PM
Keep the peace <3
I meant "The answer to the question I asked is the answer to the question you asked"
Quote from: JrDude 益 on December 24, 2010, 12:18:37 AM
I meant "The answer to the question I asked is the answer to the question you asked"
What?
Quote from: JrDude 益 on December 23, 2010, 11:51:15 PM
Do you see a "watched" thingy when I post still?
Uh, that's what I said, smartass. Not like I said "Are you still watched?"
I said "You're not watched anymore?" meaning you're not, but.. why?
How long were you watched for.. I don't even remember .-.
Quote from: Kayo on December 24, 2010, 05:49:48 PM
Uh, that's what I said, smartass. Not like I said "Are you still watched?"
There was a question mark, I answered the question (with a question)
I was watched for a few days, week max I think.
God darn it doesn't intercourse ing matter.
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 23, 2010, 09:45:11 PM
Starting to get off topic here, guys.
And well, if you'd try bro, you could get a girl easily.
Quote from: ∑ync on December 26, 2010, 10:12:02 PM
God darn it doesn't intercourse ing matter.
And well, if you'd try bro, you could get a girl easily.
All MYL needs to do is break out of his shell and meet the neighborhood girls.
Quote from: Kayo on December 26, 2010, 10:21:02 PM
All MYL needs to do is break out of his shell and meet the neighborhood girls.
The first and only time I'll
ever agree with K.
Quote from: Jemapur on December 27, 2010, 01:08:24 AM
The first and only time I'll ever agree with K.
Doubtful.
So how many of you actually have experience dating if you have all this "Just talk to x people, etc." claims... ~_~;;
Quote from: Kayo on December 26, 2010, 10:21:02 PM
All MYL needs to do is break out of his shell and meet the neighborhood girls.
The neighborhood girls are either sluts, idiots, or half my age. So yeah, I think I'm gonna pass.
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 27, 2010, 01:07:48 PM
The neighborhood girls are either sluts, idiots, or half my age. So yeah, I think I'm gonna pass.
Well, with such limited choices, I'd say go for the half my age one.
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 27, 2010, 01:07:48 PM
The neighborhood girls are either sluts, idiots, or half my age. So yeah, I think I'm gonna pass.
go for the sluts, silly
you're not going to live forever
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 27, 2010, 01:07:48 PM
The neighborhood girls are either sluts, idiots, or half my age. So yeah, I think I'm gonna pass.
Half your age is 8, so that could get you into trouble in a few years. But,
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 27, 2010, 01:07:48 PM
sluts,
You say that like it's a bad thing. You're in luck, bro.
Quote from: Nayrman on December 27, 2010, 12:15:51 PM
So how many of you actually have experience dating if you have all this "Just talk to x people, etc." claims... ~_~;;
Sup.
Quote from: Nayrman on December 27, 2010, 12:15:51 PM
So how many of you actually have experience dating if you have all this "Just talk to x people, etc." claims... ~_~;;
sup breh
I play those games
don't listen to half this forum though they're ronrey
like kianglo
don't ever listen to him
Quote from: CUSTOM THE HERO on December 27, 2010, 05:03:09 PM
go for the sluts, silly
you're not going to live forever
If I wanted to date girls for sex and nothing else, I'd just resort to rape.
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 29, 2010, 12:05:37 PM
If I wanted to date girls for sex and nothing else, I'd just resort to rape.
That has to be the most fighting post I've seen here.
Quote from: SkyMyl on December 29, 2010, 12:05:37 PM
If I wanted to date girls for sex and nothing else, I'd just resort to rape.
Good luck with that.
These last few pages are... interesting, to the say the least.
I say, approach a girl with a friend. If not try and talk about anything that is relevant at your current location at the time. If she is looking at cloths, try and say something like " Would you recommend I buy this for my mom?" Something around that line. "Do you think this shirt looks good on me, I need a females advice" Do it as honest as possible. Then tell her your name and so on keep the convo going. Usually the person that asks the questions is control. But make it seem like you don't give a flying sh!t about her. Then I would assume make it seem like your extremely cool guy. Then get her number and start texting her after an hour or two. Do not wait that 2 day period other guys are saying. Thats there way of keeping you out the game. If you wait to long the girl wont even bother talking to you.
I personally don't date girls. But I had many serious relationships under different titles. I also had sex with more women then I can count on my hands.
Take my advice guys. This is how you meet girls. THe girl you meet might just be the one of your dreams, or if she then introduced you to her group of female friends, your dream girl could be in that group. You wont know unless you try. Hope that helps.
I never knew this thread existed.
Have you ever dated someone? Yes
Are you dating someone now? No
How long was your longest relationship? 7-8 months
Have you kissed? A few times
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(Whether you've dated someone or not)
How long should you wait until you kiss each other? I guess when you're both ready?
Do you think sex is OK? or should you wait 'till you're married? Sex is okay, but not "before" marriage. At least to me it's not.
Sex is so overrated.
But as far as that goes I'm pretty much done with this crap.
I've found that I'm not interested in having a relationship anymore. It used to be a big deal for me, but now it seems to be not important.
Honestly, the girl I'm most interested in is Taylor Momsen, and not just because of her looks.
Here's a picture of her looking normal--as opposed to just her usual leather and lingerie.
[spoiler]You'll never guess how old she is...
(http://i49.tinypic.com/xkwpxs.png)[/spoiler]
I honestly have more important things to take care of than worry about something that could happen any day.
Like school and work.
I love girly girls.
I'm kind of on the fence with this one girl at my school... we'll see how this works out.
Good luck with that.
Not so well so far.